openli

Relationship advice
for the open-hearted

Real support for open relationships, ENM, and
polyamory — with AI that understands.

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Communication

Boundaries

Connection

Trust

BRING IT HERE

IT'S OKAY TO NOT HAVE IT ALL FIGURED OUT

Feeling Jealous?

Understand it, name it, work through it — without shame.

Not Enough Time?

Juggling partners, priorities, and still needing space? Let's unpack it.

Where's the Line?

Setting (and respecting) boundaries that actually feel good.

Can We Talk?

Say the hard things with clarity, care, and courage.

Designed by Poly-Friendly Therapists

Guided by certified therapists with deep experience in ethical non-monogamy, our AI supports you with care, nuance, and understanding.

Expert-Guided Approach

Every response is informed by therapeutic frameworks specifically adapted for non-traditional relationship structures.

Trauma-informed methodology
Attachment theory integration

Core Ethics

Our guidance is built on a foundation of consent, communication, and respect for all relationship configurations.

Regular review by ENM specialists
Community-informed development

Privacy & Confidentiality

Your conversations and personal details are protected with industry-leading encryption and strict data policies.

No data sold to third parties
Anonymized conversation storage

Philosophy

Our guiding principles

Beyond Monogamy

Relationships exist on a spectrum. We help you navigate your unique path without judgment.

Algorithmic Intimacy

Our approach combines human expertise with technology to provide nuanced guidance tailored to your unique relationship dynamics.

Ethical Framework

Consent, communication, and boundaries form the foundation of all relationship advice.

Experiences

What our users say

"Openli helped me articulate feelings I couldn't name. The AI understood nuances that even some humans in my life didn't."
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"When jealousy surfaced in my open relationship, Openli's perspective offered a clarity I hadn't considered."
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"As someone exploring relationship anarchy, I found Openli refreshingly free of conventional assumptions."
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Frequently Asked Questions

Get answers to common questions about our approach and services

Important Disclaimer

Openli is not a replacement for licensed therapy or medical advice. If you're experiencing a crisis or need clinical mental health support, please contact a licensed professional or emergency services.